• Go out gaming four nights per week for four hours each night.
• Make three approaches per hour. This schedule allows for twenty minutes per approach.
That adds up to twelve approaches per night — which is forty-eight per week and two hundred per month. (Chapter 4 covers the art of approaching.) Within a year you will have approached over two thousand women.
How many women have you approached in the past year?Calibration and InternalizationAfter the first week or two in the field, approaches start to become a blur. Patterns emerge over time. Formerly puzzling social behavior comes clearly into focus. Situations and reactions can be easily predicted before they occur. This powerful social intuition, derived from time in the field, is known as calibration.
A skilled venusian artist will anticipate, and have a prepared response for, nearly any common social challenge. He has already encountered this particular challenge before. He has experimented with a variety of different responses, and he has compared notes with all of his friends on the subject as well. He has found an effective answer, and he has already field-tested it and practiced it to mastery.
So when the challenge arises, the answer comes forth — automatically delivered into action by his unconscious mind. In the same way that all practiced behaviors become automatic, so does the skill set of the Mystery Method. This process is known as internalization.
Women are more socially savvy because they tend to be involved in more approaches
For a man to be in the Game, he must actively approach women. If he stops doing this, he has taken himself out of the Game. But women cannot so easily make this choice. If she is attractive, men will approach her anyway. She needn't do anything but simply be there — she can't help it. For this reason, women usually have more calibration and social skill than men do. They've had more practice.
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